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Question: How does one make his anus big enough to take another without it ripping or bein unpleasurable; just so that in the future it will be? › View responses (1)
Question: im really worried about my first time,i think i might be too tight and could get hurt? Is there anything i could do to prepare myself for anal sex?..so it goes smoothly › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Foreplay is important before penetration. It can mean kissing, cuddling and touching, or rimming or fingering. The anal opening is quite elastic and with patience will stretch comfortably. However, forced entry pushing past the pain - is a bad idea and can cause bleeding.
First time penetration could take twenty minutes or more, and several attempts before your arse relaxes fully and gets used to the feeling of having a cock inside it. If you partner is having trouble getting his cock in, push out slightly as he enters you. At first, the pressure on the prostate gland might make you feel as though you are going to piss or shit. These sensations are your body adapting to new sensations. What makes being fucked intensely pleasurable is the combination of a delicate area being stimulated as well as a hard cock pushing against the prostate (a small but very sensitive organ).
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Question: What is the normal duration for someone to ejaculate when he starts mastubating? Everytime I masturbate, I will ejaculate after 1 minute.. Do u have any tips how to masturbate without ejaculate faster? › View responses (2)
The Sexpert Response:
There’s no ‘normal’ duration when it comes to ejaculating. If you’re concerned, try masturbate more often. Stop when you feel close to cumming; then start again a minute later. You could also try different mastibation techniques.
NITESHIFT, 3 July 2010
i suggest u slow ur strokes down ma bro. Try puttng sum oil on it so ur nt pushing it dwn to fast .dnt force it to cum feel relaxd.
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Question: What is the safe period of having sex without precaution? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Technically, the longest it can take for HIV to be detectable in a blood test is three months. If both partners test negative after that (and have used condoms in between) then at this point they might decide to dispense with condoms from then on. However it’s not recommended - you’re depending entirely on blind trust that either you or your partner won’t take risks with others. Allowing for human temptations, sticking with condoms with all partners is a good plan.
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Question: is it possible for somebody to have a fetish for condoms? i really love masturbating wearing them and blowing up another condom like a balloons and feeling it on my body is it weird? › View responses (2)
The Sexpert Response:
It’s quite possible and not all that unusual. On web sites that specialise in amateur sex videos men masturbating with condoms feature quite often.
innercore, 15 March 2010
I would think it’s uite normal. I like the look of a guy’s dick all wrapped up in a condom. I suppose it’s sightly because condoms are highly connected with sex.
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Question: Can I get HIV from swallowing cum? › View responses (4)
nabro, 14 October 2009
Oh my
Q, 14 October 2009
sometimes
innercore, 15 March 2010
Highly unlikely. I remember this being talked about at school.
NITESHIFT, 7 July 2010
why wud u wana swallow it? Wn i have sex with ma man i gt him to warn me its cumming when i blowjob his cock.. Ive never knwn wat it may tastes like itha..
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Question: Hey, is it safe to use cooking oil as lube when wanking your cock? › View responses (1)
Q, 8 October 2009
Using cooking oil as lube when you’re just wanking your cock is fine. But when you’re having sex with someone, you shouldn’t use oil. Oil-based lubes (like cooking oil, baby oil, vaseline, lotion, etc) breaks down the latex in condoms and can cause them to break.
When you’re having sex with someone, using condoms and water- or silicone-based lube is really important, as they’re the best way to protect you and your partner from HIV and other STIs.
When we send out condoms to people, we send out water-based lube too. You can use it when having sex, or just wanking your cock.
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Question: Is lube really that important? › View responses (1)
Q, 8 October 2009
If you’re having anal sex, yes. It’ll make the experience a lot more pleasurable for both you and your partner, but will also prevent friction on the condom and stop it from breaking.
The Sexpert Response:
A good idea is to start off slow by play with it, either by yourself or with a partner. Many find it comfortable fingering while wanking . When you’re comfortable you can move to small toys. It will take time so don’t rush into anything you’re not comfortable doing. For more information you can read our blog articles Arse 101 and Arse 102 in our Sex and Relationships section
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