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Question: I found out I got crabs. Is there any non-prescription product I can use? › View responses (2)

melly, 17 March 2010

just shave all your hair off

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Question: can you get sick from rimming? › View responses (1)

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Question: hey whats the best way to finger yourself when you're wanking? do you have any tips? › View responses (2)

uknow, 26 March 2010

soap as lube?

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Question: My foreskin doesn't come all the way back when my penis is erect ... is this normal? Can I top a guy or will it break my penis??? › View responses (3)

The Sexpert Response:

Yes it’s normal unless it’s uncomfortable. You should be able to clean underneath it. If you’re not sure consult your doctor or the Seuxal Health Service - there’s a small procedure which can loosen it.

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Roll the condom over your foreskin – your penis won’t break.

jordz202, 19 June 2010

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Question: Is there any way that you could make your bottom partner cum by themself while they're being fucked without wanking themself? › View responses (1)

The Sexpert Response:

Well it’s up to him really – on how aroused he is and the time since his last orgasm. For some men this happens quite often – for most it’s rare .

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Question: do gay guys always douche before sex or is it not really necessary? › View responses (1)

The Sexpert Response:

Douching too often can be unhealthy - it begins to replace the natural functioning of your body. Some men prefer do it for heavier anal sex sessions involving toys and / or fisting

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Question: can chlamydia give the head of your penis patchiness or a rash? › View responses (1)

The Sexpert Response:

Yes it can. You should go get tested by a doctor.

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Question: wat do i do if im horny all the time? › View responses (2)

The Sexpert Response:

Hormones are natural. Perhaps you could try masturbating more. Pay attention to your whole body (touch) not just your dick.

NITESHIFT, 8 July 2010

Think why your HORNY if its pictures u see or people. Then try think of them and feel or rub ur COCK. IT CAN BRING IT BACK DWN TO NORMAL. U MUST FANTASIES ALOT ASWEL COS THAT BRINGS OUT HORNYNESS. KIA ORA

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Question: Oral sex involves some risk but not many will suck a condom. What do you think of this dilemma? › View responses (2)

The Sexpert Response:

Very few men use condoms for oral sex and given that oral sex is low risk for HIV transmission it’s far more important for condoms to be used for anal sex.  For optimum sexual health and wellbeing, we recommend a full sexual health check every three to six months from your nearest sexual health clinic, or New Zealand AIDS Foundation Regional Centre.

Platane, 24 September 2011

Hi there. If I may say so, you are not answering a very interesting question. It is a dilemma. Oral sex involves some risk but not many will suck a condom. Apart from a regular health check, what do you truly think of this dilemma? Thank you!

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Question: are there any negatives like roids etc.. that come from having anal sex? › View responses (1)

The Sexpert Response:

Not if it’s done with care, patience, condoms, and lots of lube. Make sure you start off slowly and only do things you’re comfortable doing.

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