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Question: can I get anything from sucking a cock without them cumming? › View responses (1)
Question: how will i know if i have aids symptoms?.. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
A person is diagnosed with AIDS when their HIV status becomes quite advanced. This is often several years after they first contract HIV. The actual signs of HIV and AIDS can vary from person to person, so the best way to find out if you’re concerned is to go get tested. You can book a fast test through http://www.nzaf.org.nz
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Question: hey i'm a bisexual and i've only told one person who i will never see again. is there a way to make it easier for me to come out? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
One of the most common ways to come out is to first speak to a trusted friend. Ask them to keep it to themselves until you’ve had time to come to terms with things yourself. There are also lots of support groups around the country. A good website that you could visit is http://www.curious.org.nz
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Question: Hey, can you get HIV from anal if you dont ejaculate in each other? Also, what are the effects of having HIV? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
The lining of the anus is like a sponge that quickly absorbs things like cum and pre-cum. Both cum and pre-cum contain HIV so it is important to use a condom and lube for anal sex every time. Sometimes, there are no visible effects of HIV so you can’t always tell if someone has it. HIV undermines the effect of the immune system so you are highly susceptible to all sorts of diseases. People with HIV also need to take potent medication every day for the rest of their lives.
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Question: hey. serious question . im still in my teens, but i have a small dick. its about 3.5 when erect. When i was younger, i was with a guy about a 6 months older than me and he had already had abouy a 6 inch dick. what am i suposed to do ? im still basically a virgin and wont let anyonen touch me. im a bit chubby but i dont know if that changes anything ? help › View responses (2)
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis – like the rest of you – will continue to develop until you are in your early 20’s. Also remember that size isn’t everything – regardless of penis size men experience the same amount of pleasure. Love making is also a skill independent of penis size – it’s about respecting your partner and learning what they like, as well as what you like
NITESHIFT, 7 July 2010
older men can also have smaller Cocks than teen Boys, your not alone bro. Just be happy u have nuts,
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Question: How long does it take for the symptoms of chlymidia to appear after infection? i.e. discharge from penis. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
The usual symptoms of chlamydia in men are: A small amounts of clear or cloudy discharge from the tip of the penis; painful urination; burning and itching around the opening of the penis; pain and swelling around the testicles. However 50% men don’t have any symptoms at all so it pays to get checked if you’re worried.
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Question: Could you explain to me what douching is and how it is performed? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Douching involves putting a small plastic tube which is connected to a tap or bag into your anus and letting the water gently clean it out – any waste material is expelled along with the water.
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Question: Hi. this is a serious question...i have a rather large cock.. i literally cannot find a condom to fit it... the widest i can find is 58mm width..i need 64mm or so . i can not find anywhere in nz to find thius size...length is normal, it's just quite thick...really..i would love any ideas on where i can source unusual sized condoms. thanks › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Blue Shield are 60mm and is a great size for larger penises. It is available on prescription from your GP or sexual health clinic. Otherwise, you can order Trojan Magnum XL condoms from the US online, which are 64mm wide.
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Question: What are the symptoms of AIDS AND HIVS › View responses (1)
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Question: Tomorrow is going to be my first time with a man. Got any tips? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity in terms of HIV transmission, but it is possible to contract diseases like syphilis and herpes. You should get regular sexual health checkups every three to six months if you are concerned.
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