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Question: hey. serious question . im still in my teens, but i have a small dick. its about 3.5 when erect. When i was younger, i was with a guy about a 6 months older than me and he had already had abouy a 6 inch dick. what am i suposed to do ? im still basically a virgin and wont let anyonen touch me. im a bit chubby but i dont know if that changes anything ? help › View responses (2)
Question: Where can i get tested for HIV in Invercargill, Southland? Thanks › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
The Q-Ten Sexual Health Service at the Southland Hospital provides confidential, non-judgemental testing services for people of all ages, cultures and sexual orientations.
Phone (03) 214 5768
Opening hours:
Monday 11.30-1.30 and 2.30 -6.00pm
Wed 3.30pm -6pm
Friday 10 -2pm
You can visit their site here http://www.sdhb.govt.nz/index.php?pageLoad=466
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Question: How long does it take for the symptoms of chlymidia to appear after infection? i.e. discharge from penis. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
The usual symptoms of chlamydia in men are: A small amounts of clear or cloudy discharge from the tip of the penis; painful urination; burning and itching around the opening of the penis; pain and swelling around the testicles. However 50% men don’t have any symptoms at all so it pays to get checked if you’re worried.
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Question: Could you explain to me what douching is and how it is performed? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Douching involves putting a small plastic tube which is connected to a tap or bag into your anus and letting the water gently clean it out – any waste material is expelled along with the water.
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Question: what is STIs ? › View responses (3)
Q, 22 March 2010
STI stands for Sexually Transmitted Infection. Most of these, including HIV, can be effectively prevented by using condoms and lube.
sammisammiboy, 23 March 2010
so it is better do not have anal sex ?
The Sexpert Response:
It is best to always use condoms and lube for anal sex. You can order free condoms and lube from Free Condoms section at the top of this page
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Question: Hi. this is a serious question...i have a rather large cock.. i literally cannot find a condom to fit it... the widest i can find is 58mm width..i need 64mm or so . i can not find anywhere in nz to find thius size...length is normal, it's just quite thick...really..i would love any ideas on where i can source unusual sized condoms. thanks › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Blue Shield are 60mm and is a great size for larger penises. It is available on prescription from your GP or sexual health clinic. Otherwise, you can order Trojan Magnum XL condoms from the US online, which are 64mm wide.
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Question: What are the symptoms of AIDS AND HIVS › View responses (1)
Q, 15 March 2010
Some people experience a mild flu-like illness during sero-conversion. After that, without treatment, there might not be any symptoms at all for years. The best idea if you’ve had unsafe sex and you’re worried is to go get tested. Here is a link to get book a test at your nearest NZAF Centre http://www.nzaf.org.nz/our-services/item/get-tested-for-hiv-and-stis/
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Question: Tomorrow is going to be my first time with a man. Got any tips? › View responses (1)
Q, 15 March 2010
Make sure that you use condoms and lube for anal sex. Take your time and make sure you feel safe and not pressured into doing anything you’re not comfortable with.
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Question: I found out I got crabs. Is there any non-prescription product I can use? › View responses (2)
Q, 15 March 2010
It is possible to treat crabs with over-the-counter medications from the chemist. One of the best is Prioderm Cream Shampoo which you can apply in the shower or bath.
melly, 17 March 2010
just shave all your hair off
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Question: can you get sick from rimming? › View responses (1)
Q, 15 March 2010
You can get Hepatitis A so it’s a good idea to be vaccinated with Twinrix (which also vaccinates against Hepatitis B). There are also some easily treated intestinal bugs you can get such as Giardia.
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis – like the rest of you – will continue to develop until you are in your early 20’s. Also remember that size isn’t everything – regardless of penis size men experience the same amount of pleasure. Love making is also a skill independent of penis size – it’s about respecting your partner and learning what they like, as well as what you like
NITESHIFT, 7 July 2010
older men can also have smaller Cocks than teen Boys, your not alone bro. Just be happy u have nuts,
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