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Question: Hi. I’ve recently started dating a guy who seems almost perfect. He’s intelligent, passionate, super hot, successful, and has a great body; but his penis is only about 3 inches when hard. I have a really high sex drive and I’m a bottom. Is it a good idea for me to pursue things with him or are things doomed from the start? › View responses (1)
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Question: KIA ORA, ME HAS A FEMALE PARTNER BUT. WHEN I SEE MALES PASS BY ME MY COCK GETS HARD. I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS, AM I GAY.... › View responses (2)
The Sexpert Response:
You might be bisexual - many men are attracted to both men and women. The attraction is very rarely 50/50 and may lean more toward one gender or another
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Question: kia ora, my grlfriend of 3yrs. Has turnt of from having sex anymore. I'm not happy at all esspecailly when I love hvng sex. We hve 1 child, Im nt happy wth her because she acts sexcy wth me thn wen i gt down on hr she says wait thats enough. So heres wot i dd I spoted a male online hd sex wth him and boy he blew me away better than ma girl. I keep in cntact wth him wen im always HORNY. HE LIVES NEAR BY. My question is shud i tell her whats up? Or shud she try and catch me out. Ive bn doig it for 6months bhind her back. I switchd to a male cause a female may or may not hve my baby. I love ma Girl bt if no sex im seing ma mate down tthe road.. What cn you do to help me. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Firstly, it’s important to use condoms and water-based lube for penetrative sex with all your sexual partners. It’s OK for you to tell her that you find her lack of interest in sex frustrating. that you have now found out that you also like to have sex with guys suggests that you might be discovering bisexuality. If this concerns you or you think about sex all the time counselling will be a good idea. Try outline 0800 OUTLINE
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Question: Hi there. I recently had an encounter with a sex worker. I did wear a condom while having sex with him, but he did give me oral sex without me wearing a condom. Am I at risk of contacting HIV if he is HIV positive? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity in terms of HIV transmission, but it is possible to contract diseases like syphilis and herpes. You should get regular sexual health checkups every three to six months if you are concerned.
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Question: Hey. I'm 18, and my dick is just under 7 inches when its hard. I'm not worried about that, I'm worried about the fact that its kinda thin. Not pencil thin, but thinner than others. Will it still grow? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis keeps growing until you’re in your early 20’s. They come in all shapes and sizes and have the same sensations regardless of size. The average penis is 12.9 to 15cm (5.1 to 5.9 inches).
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Question: i have sores on my tongue what does this mean could it just be ulcers? they're very small › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Sores on your tongue can mean lots of things and can sometimes be a sign of syphilis. If they don’t go away soon, go see a doctor.
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Question: How long is tha usual time to cum whn masterbating? Whn i masterbate it takes about 3 or so min b4 i cum, is ths a short/long/ok time to cum whn masterbating? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
There’s no normal time as everyone is different when cumming. A good way to practice going longer is to pause when you’re getting close. Masturbating wearing a condom and lube is also a great way to get use to the feeling of wearing condoms.
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Question: if a guy has hiv and he sucks my dick and swollows my cum and i dont wear a condom, will i get hiv? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
It would be virtually impossible for someone with HIV to pass it on to you through giving you oral sex unless he had heavily bleeding gums and you had an open wound on your penis. If you’re concerned, you should go get tested.
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Question: Is it possible to be horny all the time?? Legit question. I am always thinking about sex: When I wakeup, throughout the day, at work, on the bus home, at bball or footy. Whether it be about doing chicks or dudes, all the same. I'm already addicted to porn online and (embarassingly) have a library of the dam stuff on my PC (straight/bi/gay & tranny porn... no weird shit like kiddy or animal stuff.... fuck that). I joined an orgy 2 weekend's ago and although I was exhausted afterwards and my dick sore, I still found myself horny.. Could this come down to hormone imbalance? Or am I just a dam horny dog. I have tried a service in auckland but got discharged because I kept hitting on the receptionist/counsellor. Again, this is a legit question. Cheers mate. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Being horny isn’t a problem unless you feel that it’s interfering with your life and taking up a lot of your time. If you’d like to discuss this with someone, you can access a safe and confidential counselling service through http://www.nzaf.org.nz. There’s also a difference between having sex and making love – it’s like the difference between McDonalds and four course meal. If you only ever have sex (fast food) you’ll get hungry again soon, but if you have a satisfying meal (make love, take your time and connect emotionally) you’re like to be content for longer. Just make sure that you’re playing safe when you’re horny and use condoms and lube every time.
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis – like the rest of you – will continue to develop until you are in your early 20’s. Also remember that size isn’t everything – regardless of penis size men experience the same amount of pleasure. Love making is also a skill independent of penis size – it’s about respecting your partner and learning what they like, as well as what you like
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