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Question: Hi there. I recently had an encounter with a sex worker. I did wear a condom while having sex with him, but he did give me oral sex without me wearing a condom. Am I at risk of contacting HIV if he is HIV positive? › View responses (1)
Question: Hey. I'm 18, and my dick is just under 7 inches when its hard. I'm not worried about that, I'm worried about the fact that its kinda thin. Not pencil thin, but thinner than others. Will it still grow? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis keeps growing until you’re in your early 20’s. They come in all shapes and sizes and have the same sensations regardless of size. The average penis is 12.9 to 15cm (5.1 to 5.9 inches).
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Question: i have sores on my tongue what does this mean could it just be ulcers? they're very small › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Sores on your tongue can mean lots of things and can sometimes be a sign of syphilis. If they don’t go away soon, go see a doctor.
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Question: How long is tha usual time to cum whn masterbating? Whn i masterbate it takes about 3 or so min b4 i cum, is ths a short/long/ok time to cum whn masterbating? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
There’s no normal time as everyone is different when cumming. A good way to practice going longer is to pause when you’re getting close. Masturbating wearing a condom and lube is also a great way to get use to the feeling of wearing condoms.
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Question: if a guy has hiv and he sucks my dick and swollows my cum and i dont wear a condom, will i get hiv? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
It would be virtually impossible for someone with HIV to pass it on to you through giving you oral sex unless he had heavily bleeding gums and you had an open wound on your penis. If you’re concerned, you should go get tested.
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Question: Is it possible to be horny all the time?? Legit question. I am always thinking about sex: When I wakeup, throughout the day, at work, on the bus home, at bball or footy. Whether it be about doing chicks or dudes, all the same. I'm already addicted to porn online and (embarassingly) have a library of the dam stuff on my PC (straight/bi/gay & tranny porn... no weird shit like kiddy or animal stuff.... fuck that). I joined an orgy 2 weekend's ago and although I was exhausted afterwards and my dick sore, I still found myself horny.. Could this come down to hormone imbalance? Or am I just a dam horny dog. I have tried a service in auckland but got discharged because I kept hitting on the receptionist/counsellor. Again, this is a legit question. Cheers mate. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Being horny isn’t a problem unless you feel that it’s interfering with your life and taking up a lot of your time. If you’d like to discuss this with someone, you can access a safe and confidential counselling service through http://www.nzaf.org.nz. There’s also a difference between having sex and making love – it’s like the difference between McDonalds and four course meal. If you only ever have sex (fast food) you’ll get hungry again soon, but if you have a satisfying meal (make love, take your time and connect emotionally) you’re like to be content for longer. Just make sure that you’re playing safe when you’re horny and use condoms and lube every time.
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Question: can I get anything from sucking a cock without them cumming? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity in terms of HIV transmission, but it is possible to contract diseases like syphilis and herpes. You should get regular sexual health checkups every three to six months if you are concerned.
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Question: how will i know if i have aids symptoms?.. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
A person is diagnosed with AIDS when their HIV status becomes quite advanced. This is often several years after they first contract HIV. The actual signs of HIV and AIDS can vary from person to person, so the best way to find out if you’re concerned is to go get tested. You can book a fast test through http://www.nzaf.org.nz
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Question: hey i'm a bisexual and i've only told one person who i will never see again. is there a way to make it easier for me to come out? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
One of the most common ways to come out is to first speak to a trusted friend. Ask them to keep it to themselves until you’ve had time to come to terms with things yourself. There are also lots of support groups around the country. A good website that you could visit is http://www.curious.org.nz
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Question: Hey, can you get HIV from anal if you dont ejaculate in each other? Also, what are the effects of having HIV? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
The lining of the anus is like a sponge that quickly absorbs things like cum and pre-cum. Both cum and pre-cum contain HIV so it is important to use a condom and lube for anal sex every time. Sometimes, there are no visible effects of HIV so you can’t always tell if someone has it. HIV undermines the effect of the immune system so you are highly susceptible to all sorts of diseases. People with HIV also need to take potent medication every day for the rest of their lives.
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity in terms of HIV transmission, but it is possible to contract diseases like syphilis and herpes. You should get regular sexual health checkups every three to six months if you are concerned.
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