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Question: What can hiv do to us? › View responses (1)
Question: I had sex with a virgin a few days ago but without a condom should i be worried? and how long after should i go for a std/HIV test? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
It is best practise to always be safe and wear a condom and use water based lube at all times during sex. Relying on your partner’s say that he or she is a virgin should not factor into your decision to not be safe in sex. It is advised to have regular STD and HIV checks at least every six months so the sooner the better.
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Question: I always get erections when I don't want them, like when i'm not even horny one just pops up. It sucks when i'm at the beach or the swimming pool cos all my mates are having fun and i'm just sitting there with a hard-on. Its kinda ruining my life, its been going on for years, i'm 16, and i'm getting sick of it. Is there anything i can do? › View responses (1)
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Your best bet would be to speak with your GP as they can make the proper diagnosis and subsequently give you the best treatment. If you have urgent health issues or something you are very worried about, please do not hesitate to talk to your doctor or other health professional as soon as possible.
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Question: My dick has these little yellow dots on it what are they and how do i get rid of them? › View responses (1)
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There could be a number of reasons this has happened so the best bet would be to consult with your GP to make a proper visual diagnosis. Remember if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask as we’re only too happy to help or refer you to those with professional expertise.
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Question: Hi, I'm a top guy, but curious to bottom. I sometimes suffer from symtoms of 'piles'. Can piles patients bottom? › View responses (1)
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There are many people who suffer from this problem but are still able to enjoy great sex on the ‘bottom bunk’. If you do have any concerns, the best bet would be to see your GP for a proper diagnosis. Only you know what your boundaries are and the key is to take it easy. There is a helpful guide for First Timers http://www.getiton.co.nz/great-sex-safe-sex/first-timers/
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Question: Hi, I'm a top, however like getting rimmed. I'm not out and don't have a douche system to clean my arse. I was wondering is there any natural way to clean my ass so i can keep getting rimmed without anything to worry about? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
There is a great guide to douching here: http://www.getiton.co.nz/great-sex-safe-sex/mouth-dick-balls-arse/arse/ . While the article says you can buy a douching kit, it also says you can take the DIY approach and use a drink bottle with a sipper top, but don’t put it back in the fridge!
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Question: Can you catch STD's from pre-cum? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Yes, you can catch a wide variety of STI’s, including HIV, from pre-cum, so be sure to use a condom and lube everytime you have anal sex. You can get them for free here! condoms.getiton.co.nz
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Question: the condoms they sell are always too big for me, how can I know the condom's size, and where can I find the smaller ones? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
There are plenty smaller condoms out there, they will usually be labelled ‘tight fit’, ‘narrow fit’ or ‘snug fit’. You should be able to purchase them in any supermarket or chemist. You could also purchase online and have them sent to you. The sizes are in milimetres and will be written on the outside of the box. A link to the different sizes you will normally see is here. http://www.getiton.co.nz/condoms-lube/the-perfect-fit/
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Question: I am getting small boils on my privates including my bumps. These are like pimples but doesn't have any fluid like pimples, they don't burst, but are kind of itchy sometimes. I am very clean and take bath everyday, should I seek a doctor ? I am not able to understand the reason for it › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
There are several conditions that can cause pimple like lumps on the genital area, some are variations of normal genital skin that can develop over time and some are caused by infections. I would advise you to see a doctor for a diagnosis.
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Question: I just want to know how your site is functioning. Do you have Sexpert always online? › View responses (1)
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We check the Sexpert questions Monday to Friday, it’s usually best to allow a couple of days for us to respond to your questions, especially if they’re curly ones!
The Sexpert Response:
HIV is the Human Immunodeficiency Virus that causes failure of part of the immune system. The immune system is important because it defends the body from infection and disease. HIV infects and destroys key cells in the body. It particularly targets a cell called CD4 (also known as a T4 cell, or T-helper cell). CD4 cells are an essential component of the immune system which it is important in protecting the body against infection and disease.
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) refers to a range of specific illness that people with HIV may get when their immune system is badly damaged. These illnesses include infections and cancers.
The presence of HIV in the body is not an AIDS diagnosis. Having HIV in your body does not mean you have AIDS. It is possible to have HIV for many years but show no symptoms that define AIDS.
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