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Question: Hi what happens if you suck a guys cok and he had hiv and I swollowed his cum? will I get hiv? › View responses (1)
Question: hey can a cock ever get stuck inside you ? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Sometimes when the receptive partner cums he tenses up making it difficult for the insertive partner to extract his erect penis. If you both wait for a few minutes the “grip” will loosen and the penis can withdraw with ease.
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Question: my new boyfriend ' iam just askinq out is the world and everythinq to me ? but i dont know why everyboy is intreasted in sex and i do want to have sex with him what type of ocndom should i use and whats lube used for ? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Use a condom that fits and feels comfortable. Squeeze the air out of the tip when you roll it on. Putting lube on the outside of the condom makes it more comfortable for both partners (think slip and slide) and minimises the chance of the condom breaking. Check out http://getiton.co.nz/info-resources/perfect-fit/ for more info and a demonstration on how to put on a condom
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Question: when do males cocks stop growing?x › View responses (1)
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Your penis – like the rest of you – will continue to develop until you are in your early 20’s. Also remember that size isn’t everything – regardless of penis size men experience the same amount of pleasure. Love making is also a skill independent of penis size – it’s about respecting your partner and learning what they like, as well as what you like
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Question: Hi. I’ve recently started dating a guy who seems almost perfect. He’s intelligent, passionate, super hot, successful, and has a great body; but his penis is only about 3 inches when hard. I have a really high sex drive and I’m a bottom. Is it a good idea for me to pursue things with him or are things doomed from the start? › View responses (1)
Q, 13 July 2010
Penis size is just one aspect of an intimate relationship so it all depends on which aspects of love you find most important. Would you rather date someone just because he had a big penis? By the tone of your email, it sounds like you obviously like this guy so it’s totally worth giving it a go.
A good way to spice up things in the bedroom could be to include toys and experiment with sexual positions. Your partner could try using sex toys on you: dildos for depth and butt plugs for width. Another experiment could involve dildo AND his penis at the same time.
The best positions are ones that allow for the deepest penetration: it’s partly pressure on the prostate gland that makes receptive anal sex so pleasurable. Put a pillow under your pelvis, raise your legs, and rest your feet on his chest or shoulders. The entry path puts his penis on a collision course with your prostate.
You can also try lying flat on your belly with legs closed. Slip a pillow beneath your hips until your bottom arches upward. He gently spreads your thighs to allow penetration. Another good position has you sitting on his penis and moving up and down. Remember the condoms and lots of lube.
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Question: KIA ORA, ME HAS A FEMALE PARTNER BUT. WHEN I SEE MALES PASS BY ME MY COCK GETS HARD. I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS, AM I GAY.... › View responses (2)
The Sexpert Response:
You might be bisexual - many men are attracted to both men and women. The attraction is very rarely 50/50 and may lean more toward one gender or another
Q, 9 July 2010
I would say that having random hard-ons is not unusual or a sign that something is wrong.
Being gay would mean that you’re attracted to men, want to have sex with men and would like to be in a relationship with emotional connections to men. Being bisexual means that you’re attracted to women and men, want to have sex with women and men and would like to be in a relationship with emotional connections to women and men as well. Being gay or bisexual is normal too, and if you’re one of those it might be useful to talk with someone.
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Question: kia ora, my grlfriend of 3yrs. Has turnt of from having sex anymore. I'm not happy at all esspecailly when I love hvng sex. We hve 1 child, Im nt happy wth her because she acts sexcy wth me thn wen i gt down on hr she says wait thats enough. So heres wot i dd I spoted a male online hd sex wth him and boy he blew me away better than ma girl. I keep in cntact wth him wen im always HORNY. HE LIVES NEAR BY. My question is shud i tell her whats up? Or shud she try and catch me out. Ive bn doig it for 6months bhind her back. I switchd to a male cause a female may or may not hve my baby. I love ma Girl bt if no sex im seing ma mate down tthe road.. What cn you do to help me. › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Firstly, it’s important to use condoms and water-based lube for penetrative sex with all your sexual partners. It’s OK for you to tell her that you find her lack of interest in sex frustrating. that you have now found out that you also like to have sex with guys suggests that you might be discovering bisexuality. If this concerns you or you think about sex all the time counselling will be a good idea. Try outline 0800 OUTLINE
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Question: Hi there. I recently had an encounter with a sex worker. I did wear a condom while having sex with him, but he did give me oral sex without me wearing a condom. Am I at risk of contacting HIV if he is HIV positive? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity in terms of HIV transmission, but it is possible to contract diseases like syphilis and herpes. You should get regular sexual health checkups every three to six months if you are concerned.
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Question: Hey. I'm 18, and my dick is just under 7 inches when its hard. I'm not worried about that, I'm worried about the fact that its kinda thin. Not pencil thin, but thinner than others. Will it still grow? › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Your penis keeps growing until you’re in your early 20’s. They come in all shapes and sizes and have the same sensations regardless of size. The average penis is 12.9 to 15cm (5.1 to 5.9 inches).
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Question: i have sores on my tongue what does this mean could it just be ulcers? they're very small › View responses (1)
The Sexpert Response:
Sores on your tongue can mean lots of things and can sometimes be a sign of syphilis. If they don’t go away soon, go see a doctor.
The Sexpert Response:
Oral sex is a very low risk activity for HIV infection regardless of whether they cum or not. If you’re worried, you can book a free and confidential test online at http://www.nzaf.org.nz
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