13 July 2010 ()
Hi. I’ve recently started dating a guy who seems almost perfect. He’s intelligent, passionate, super hot, successful, and has a great body; but his penis is only about 3 inches when hard. I have a really high sex drive and I’m a bottom. Is it a good idea for me to pursue things with him or are things doomed from the start?
Penis size is just one aspect of an intimate relationship so it all depends on which aspects of love you find most important. Would you rather date someone just because he had a big penis? By the tone of your email, it sounds like you obviously like this guy so it’s totally worth giving it a go.
A good way to spice up things in the bedroom could be to include toys and experiment with sexual positions. Your partner could try using sex toys on you: dildos for depth and butt plugs for width. Another experiment could involve dildo AND his penis at the same time.
The best positions are ones that allow for the deepest penetration: it’s partly pressure on the prostate gland that makes receptive anal sex so pleasurable. Put a pillow under your pelvis, raise your legs, and rest your feet on his chest or shoulders. The entry path puts his penis on a collision course with your prostate.
You can also try lying flat on your belly with legs closed. Slip a pillow beneath your hips until your bottom arches upward. He gently spreads your thighs to allow penetration. Another good position has you sitting on his penis and moving up and down. Remember the condoms and lots of lube.
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