Foreplay is important before penetration. It can mean kissing, cuddling and touching, or rimming or fingering. The anal opening is quite elastic and with patience will stretch comfortably. However, forced entry pushing past the pain - is a bad idea and can cause bleeding.
First time penetration could take twenty minutes or more, and several attempts before your arse relaxes fully and gets used to the feeling of having a cock inside it. If you partner is having trouble getting his cock in, push out slightly as he enters you. At first, the pressure on the prostate gland might make you feel as though you are going to piss or shit. These sensations are your body adapting to new sensations. What makes being fucked intensely pleasurable is the combination of a delicate area being stimulated as well as a hard cock pushing against the prostate (a small but very sensitive organ).
Zavija, 10 January 2010
As an older Gay Man (not straight or bi pretending to be Gay), it amazes me how many men openly solicit for sex online when their write-ups say quite the opposite, and many do not know how to clean themselves (arse end) properly in preparation for enjoyable sex, leave alone cover up or rubber up for it… If you do not know how to do this, get one of the many great Gay Sex Books from your library or make an appointment to talk with a Gay Doctor… Have some consideration for others!

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